Today, I’m so thrilled to share something written by my friend Gini Florer. She’s been such a sweet encouragement to me and to pretty much anyone who knows her.
Ten years ago Sunday, Gini & John’s road took a detour, in the most wonderful and uplifting way – adjectives that at the moment were a bit hidden behind a veil of unexpected. As this couple held a new baby in their arms, they began a journey down a road that didn’t quite look like what they imagined. But who knew, that in the midst of different, joy and happiness and contentment would come with a special life.
Gini, knowing my beef with comparison and interest in contentment, told me I could share with you the following update she posted to her Caring Bridge yesterday. I hope her words encourage you in whatever place you might be – whether you have a kid who’s normal is a bit different (btw, everyone’s is) or whether you’re just tired of trying to measure up.
Thanks for pointing us to consider perspective, Gini!
… and thanks for walking the road with me.
Today my “special” turns 10. I coined the name for him before The Lego Movie came out because he truly is “the special”.
Life is funny. John Lawson seems to have accomplished more by being able to do less. The world wants faster; he is slower. The world wants giant leaps; he takes small steps. But, oh, is he an inspiration to so many. In so few words he conveys such a great message – a message of joy, a message of perseverance, a message of triumph, a message of hope. And in his simplicity, he has a direct line to the One who created him – of that I am sure.
Is John Lawson more the way we are supposed to be: totally dependent, totally trusting, totally free to be who he is without care of what others think about him? Maybe.
Consider these gems – at what age do we start the comparisons that can steal our joy if we are not careful? My answers for John Lawson don’t fit in the box (and it is in my nature to love boxes!):
- “When did John Lawson take his first step?” 3 Years Old
- “First Word?” 4 Years Old
- “Potty-Trained?” 8 Years Old
- “Move to a Big-Boy Bed?” 10 Years Old (1 week ago today!)
John Lawson’s life has changed my perspective, taken me out of my box. Maybe that was part of his purpose. We will see clearly one day – all the questions answered.
“For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known”. 1 Corinthians 13:12
And John Lawson will be made new – or maybe we will be made new. Whatever the case we will all be whole.
“He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away”. Revelation 21:4
We all have a purpose – even if not in the eyes of the world.
“And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose”. Romans 8:28
God smiles, I think, when He turns the ways of the world upside down. It is what He came in flesh to do.
“’For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,’ declares the Lord”. Isaiah 55:8
Thankful that He cared enough to turn mine upside down 10 years ago today with the birth of our “ordinary miracle”…Watch and see what He has done: